Im resilient not stupid

 Original date 08/2021 

Buttercup.😈

Disclaimer. Lmao. I’m no longer as hostile behind the situation, but my principle is still the same. Don’t play w me! 

“I’m strong so I’ll stick by you and endure things ... but I’m not stupid! I’m smart enough to know when i also need to be strong and decide to leave . You the one stupid Awenough to think I’d stay through your bs . The thing is there’s conditions to me . 


I tell all my relationships as long as you’re trying , I’m staying . Nobody perfect . Everybody got flaws, past mistake, trauma , etc . I’m here for them , as long as you’re willing to work to better yourself and heal from all those thing. Continuously strive to be a better you .... but the moment i finally realize, you’re not bettering yourself , and only hurting me” you better believe imma choose me ✌🏾. Thing about me is i have no problem in leaving a person behind... because i a know my heart and who i am ! I know i gave chance after chance, tried to work w you , compromising, putting your needs before mine, helping and teaching any and every way i can . That’s my effort ! So tell me what i look like giving all my effort , and you not giving none . You just soaking it up , feelin the ‘unconditional’ love while I’m feeling drained and used ? Well I’m here to tell you my love has conditions, and you not meeting them so  , Nah . You handle your business . I’m good love. “ 

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